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DoveGrey wrote: Tue Dec 27, 2022 9:48 pm

May I suggest changing the wording just a bit here? There are those who might read this as justification to ban sex during a period, and that's very couple specific. Something softer such as, "Consider your comfort level during her period."
At one point I had "avoid her period if necessary". I will change it back. Even if a couple has sex during that time, some things are going to be rather messy and if you're trying something new you don't need the added hassle.
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PaulB wrote: Wed Dec 28, 2022 12:58 pm
At one point I had "avoid her period if necessary". I will change it back. Even if a couple has sex during that time, some things are going to be rather messy and if you're trying something new you don't need the added hassle.
I think that's more inclusive of varying preferences. It's a sticky situation (pun intended).
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Will be cool to see! Let us know when it's posted.
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Also interested to see this and potentially participate. Thanks @PaulB!
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I've modified the text based on some of the feedback here - THANKS!

I am picking the real foundational stuff, plus some fun activities, to make the first course 8 or 9 units over twice as many weeks.
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It will be exciting to see how it all turns out
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An update:

I've found a system that sends emails the way I want them to go out. It allows people to join at any time and get the units in order at the right pace.

I think most 2 week units will be emails on Friday, Monday, Friday Monday, but some will be different.

I've come up with eight units for the first course, so it will run 16 weeks. There will be two or more follow-up courses of twelve or fourteen weeks.

I've started creating content. I want at least half of the first course done before I open it up. I hope to do that before the end of the month.

If there is something you would like covered, let me know.
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PaulB wrote: Mon Feb 06, 2023 3:13 pm
If there is something you would like covered, let me know.
I'm sure you've already got it, but vibrators! Gotta cover the vibrators!

(Responsive desire too!)
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Link+Zelda wrote: Mon Feb 06, 2023 4:15 pm
PaulB wrote: Mon Feb 06, 2023 3:13 pm
If there is something you would like covered, let me know.
I'm sure you've already got it, but vibrators! Gotta cover the vibrators!

(Responsive desire too!)
Yeah, there will be some buzz about that. It won't make the first course, unfortunately.

And responsive drive too. "If I offered you chocolate when you were not hungry…"
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@Paul, is the subscription working? I couldn't get my mail address thru. (PM sent)
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