Long time lack of desire

Low or no sex drive?
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Pearl
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Re: Long time lack of desire

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I think you are going to have to have a "come to Jesus" moment for yourself (as they say in the South). In other words be straight up honest with yourself. Do you believe she is sinning? Your answer to that should inform your responses to her. You don't have to answer to me or anyone else on this forum. But you will answer to the Lord for how you deal with your bride.

It grieves me to think that any church would become so large that these matters are able to fester unchecked, while families slowly break apart and everyone wonders what happened! Consider that you may not be the only one hurt by this. How many other women might hold your wife in high regard? How many (potentially young impressionable) women might unknowingly pick up the same heart and attitudes? It can be difficult to judge influence, but as a woman myself, I know it can take just a small comment here, or another one there from someone I respect (thinking about my own mother's influence upon me). Sin should never be allowed to sojourn in the dark...IF you think she is sinning...

Anyway, this has weighed on my mind these last few days. As I mentioned earlier it is similar to the conversations I've had with my own father. In his case, my mom actually did soften in answer to our prayers. She and he are in regular counseling now and although I don't know details (naturally), I see so much more unity and joy! I am praying for continuing wisdom for you. And that God will give you peace and clarity. Take or leave my thoughts as you see fit.
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Re: Long time lack of desire

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I seem to be the one with do sex drive and I don't know why
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Re: Long time lack of desire

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Goopa wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 8:14 pm I seem to be the one with do sex drive and I don't know why
Are you able to get your hormones checked?
God can change what people do, behavioral patterns that have been in play for decades. He can change what we do to cope, to find comfort, to survive conflict, to count. Rahab had done a same old thing for years... and then she did something new.
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Re: Long time lack of desire

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Sorry it took so long
Yes I do shots every time 2 weeks also take pills (like vira?)
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