Topical estrogen usage

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Thought I'd update this question with some positive news.

DW has been on the topical stuff now for 6+ months and it has done good for her (and us.) Her natural lubrication has returned and she has no pain with intercourse. We have stuck with a 24 hour rule, but it causes little problem. We often have made it a habit to have sex just before she medicates in the evening, so the only miss is the next morning. I can live with loosing two mornings a week, no problem. She has tried putting it in at morning but it most all leaks out during the day. She still has some leak out with the evening application but very little.

I don't know if I would give the estrogen credit for this, but our sex life in general is improving. So with all that being said, I would advocate it for anyone suffering post-menopausal dryness  and pain.

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