Highs and Lows of Sex after 60….

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Highs and Lows of Sex after 60….

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My wife and I are in our early 70’s and periodically comment on highs and lows impacting our current sex life.

My highs…Feeling like I’m in my 20’s again after the Cialis has kicked in…

My lows…Having to anticipate our time for sex and taking Cialis 40 minutes before…

Her highs…Scheduling time for both of us to enjoy Afternoon Delights…

Her lows…Not being as spontaneous as we once were because of the need for my meds to activate…

Tell us about your highs and lows…
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@DDuffy: My doctor told me to take 20 mg of cialis every third day or take 5 mg daily.

That regimen turned back the clock 30 or more years in my life. Tadalafil/Cialis builds up in a man's body and makes him as spontaneous as he was in his youth, not to mention the great encouraging nighttime benefits or the increased hang that makes a man feel like a stallion. Your problems are solved, bro. Ask your doctor about that regimen.
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I am not there yet and hope if I get to that age I have some highs.

My first husbands father was over 60 for part of our marriage. He was very proud and happy about still having an active sex life and often commented on it. I think he just wanted to not feel old yet. He would comment on how sexy his wife still was. I hope my husband, if we reach that age, still finds me sexy.

Maybe by then they will have a cure for ED and lack of desire.
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IntimateMoment wrote: Wed Apr 19, 2023 12:02 pm Maybe by then they will have a cure for ED and lack of desire.
Great attitude! Let’s hope so!!
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IntimateMoment wrote: Wed Apr 19, 2023 12:02 pm I am not there yet and hope if I get to that age I have some highs.

My first husbands father was over 60 for part of our marriage. He was very proud and happy about still having an active sex life and often commented on it. I think he just wanted to not feel old yet. He would comment on how sexy his wife still was. I hope my husband, if we reach that age, still finds me sexy.

Maybe by then they will have a cure for ED and lack of desire.
They can do a lot for ED now, nothing wrong with taking some ED meds. Not sure about the desire part though.
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Ron wrote: Thu Apr 20, 2023 5:35 am
IntimateMoment wrote: Wed Apr 19, 2023 12:02 pm I am not there yet and hope if I get to that age I have some highs.

My first husbands father was over 60 for part of our marriage. He was very proud and happy about still having an active sex life and often commented on it. I think he just wanted to not feel old yet. He would comment on how sexy his wife still was. I hope my husband, if we reach that age, still finds me sexy.

Maybe by then they will have a cure for ED and lack of desire.
They can do a lot for ED now, nothing wrong with taking some ED meds. Not sure about the desire part though.
He had no problem with desire, being a horny guy was easy for him. HIs wife never minded him looking as long as he came to her for the touching. He sure did like to look. His sense of humor helped with how I accepted his attitude.
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Hi there,

It's great to hear that you and your wife are open about discussing your sex life. I can relate to your experiences as I also use Cialis.

Like you, I feel rejuvenated and youthful once the Cialis kicks in. It's like a second wind that brings back memories of my younger days.

I share your sentiment about the anticipation. It can sometimes feel like a chore having to time the medication and plan around it.

As for spontaneity, I've found that while it may be lessened due to the need for medication, it's not entirely gone. Sometimes, the anticipation can even add to the excitement.

Remember, every stage of life has its own unique experiences and challenges. It's all about finding ways to adapt and make the most of it. Keep the communication open with your partner and continue to explore ways to keep the spark alive.

All the best!
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At a top.level:

Lows I guess like 11 years of no sexual activity and the highs three years with sexual activity since age 60.
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This is in the "Sex for Boomers" section, but that may need to be renamed soon. I'm 58 and GenX. :lol:
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The main high point is that I am healthy and able to have sex whenever the DW is willing and able.

The main 'low' appears to be that it is easier for me to lose my erection if I become distracted. When I was younger, no stray thought could bring me down.
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