Discussing the sensitive topic of penis size before marriage

[Deleted User 146]

For better or worse over 90% of women about to marry have at least given a hand job to her soon to be husband.

ln the ten percent here. Never had a hand job till 16 years into our marriage. No 18 years. Think she knew my size in other ways before marriage.

Right. Had my first hand job ever on my wedding night. But that was only because once she saw me erect she definitely didn’t want to try intercourse. We opted for certain pleasure instead of a lot of work and pain on our wedding night. We made the right decision as we later discovered.

[Mr. Wonderful?]

For better or worse over 90% of women about to marry have at least given a hand job to her soon to be husband.

ln the ten percent here. Never had a hand job till 16 years into our marriage. No 18 years. Think she knew my size in other ways before marriage.

Right. Had my first hand job ever on my wedding night. But that was only because once she saw me erect she definitely didn’t want to try intercourse. We opted for certain pleasure instead of a lot of work and pain on our wedding night. We made the right decision as we later discovered.

My wife and I were part of that 10% as well. While the majority of people may see/touch the member prior to marriage, the other 10% still equates to a LOT of people in terms of sheer numbers.

I didn't realize how well endowed I was compared to others, so we never really discussed my size prior to our marriage. Thankfully she was able to accommodate me anyway and it was never an issue.

If someone knows that they are on the large or small end of the spectrum, or their future wife knows she is small/tight, then it might be wise to broach the topic. Otherwise I don't think it is something that necessarily should be broached, unless both are open and completely comfortable having the conversation.

[Deleted User 146]

My wife and I were part of that 10% as well. While the majority of people may see/touch the member prior to marriage, the other 10% still equates to a LOT of people in terms of sheer numbers.

I didn't realize how well endowed I was compared to others, so we never really discussed my size prior to our marriage. Thankfully she was able to accommodate me anyway and it was never an issue.

If someone knows that they are on the large or small end of the spectrum, or their future wife knows she is small/tight, then it might be wise to broach the topic. Otherwise I don't think it is something that necessarily should be broached, unless both are open and completely comfortable having the conversation.

I agree. I only broached the subject at the time because I knew I was unusually large and because she’d just told me of the report she’d gotten from her gynecologist. I generally don’t recommend that couples discuss it unless they’re in the same situation, which is rare.