Tempted by a kink

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Re: Tempted by a kink

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IndyDad wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 4:39 pm I’m fairly new here but some of these posts astound me.
Yes this is not something that would turn me on.. breathe and my ear and mention something like ****
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Re: Tempted by a kink

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SeekingChange wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 1:45 pm I see nothing wrong with your desire. What could help remove the shame from it, is to do some digging and introspection to see if there's a root need you are trying to fulfill by it. The book, The Fantasy Fallacy, helped me in this and removed a lot of shame and guilt I had around "taboo" fantasies.
Taboo fantasies are very common. It becomes a matter of whether you will experience it or deny the desire because you believe it is wrong and it remains a fantasy. I have come to terms with my taboo fantasies and feel only actions not thoughts can be a sin.
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Re: Tempted by a kink

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Fantasies can really be exciting. The trouble comes in when you try to make them reality.
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Re: Tempted by a kink

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While it isn’t my job to judge others kinks, I do have to admit I find some bizarre maybe even disgusting. Making me wonder how someone could develop such a desire. But I realize they might feel the same about mine.
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Re: Tempted by a kink

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Definitely so, but less crazy ones can build desire and set the mood. I'm pretty vanilla so I keep them tame 😂
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Re: Tempted by a kink

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I don't see anything wrong with that. We are open about farting in front of each other. She's vegan and I eat very few animal products, so it is unusual to smell anything. If I'm eating her out and she needs to fart, she pushes me away.

I'm not turned on by it. (Unless she does it during intercourse. I can feel it.) But it does show a level of comfort, openness, and being uninhibited around your spouse. A form of intimacy....

I get off on watching and listening to my wife pee.

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