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Little bit. My wife likes erotic spanking from young age. And I was also from young age near to bondage.
Sometimes we discussed about possibility to use it for instance as play-tool against obesity - unhealthy customs etc. (mutually). But never did it.
Only during wild holidays in youth when we have had evenings in nature I warned her before a little bit harder track (for us, not for normal people) to waterfalls that we will play the obedience game. That I will spank her in evenings really hard, if she will repeatedly complaints or not be obedient. I've looked at her during track with warning and she knew. But it was only obedience play for some days.
We played other very crazy one day games during youth time on holidays. For instance on dependency: That she must not use hands for any service for herself and I was her servant in feeding, dressing up, washing of hands and body etc.
Does anyone have any experience with this?
She once did something which deeply offended and hurt me. Rather than asking for forgiveness, she requested punishment. This was strictly non-sexual and I did not enjoy it at any level. Her offense and the punishment have never been repeated.
Have you ever had a desire for it, or considered it?
After the above experience, i gave it though, as did she. No, neither of us have any such desire.
What are your thoughts and opinions?
I am bigger than her and many times stronger. I have had extensive warrior training in empty hand combat. I know what I could do. The thought of hurting her, even in the slightest, is too painful for me to bear.
We do not equate pain with making love. In our minds and hearts, they can not co-exist.
How would you advise a couple considering this? Do you have Scriptural backing for your stance?
Forgiving seventy times seven is at the heart of every successful marriage and the ultimate goal of salvation.
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That gets to the crux of it, I think. A punishment is a one-off. It robs the couple of a mature discussion that allows for growth and sanctification.
Thank you for your honesty. You are right, it was important.
All the days of her life."
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